Planning the perfect proposal is one of life’s most exciting — and nerve-wracking — moments. From finding the ideal ring to choosing the right words, every detail matters. Whether you’re planning a private moment at home or a festive proposal under the Christmas lights, this checklist will help you prepare for a proposal to remember.
1. Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring
The ring is the heart of your proposal, so take your time finding one that reflects your partner’s style and your story together. Antique and vintage engagement rings make a meaningful choice — each one is unique, with a character that tells its own love story. They’re also a sustainable alternative to new rings, making them as ethical as they are beautiful.
Consider the 4 Cs — cut, colour, clarity, and carat — when choosing a diamond, or explore gemstones like sapphires, emeralds, and rubies for a touch of individuality. Our collection of antique and vintage rings includes expertly authenticated pieces, each with its own timeless charm.
2. Find a Ring Box That Lasts
Presentation matters just as much as the ring itself. The moment the box opens is when everything changes — make it count. Every ring from Antique Jewellers comes beautifully presented in our sustainable keepsake box, designed to protect your ring before and after the big moment. A sturdy, stylish box will keep your engagement ring safe for years to come.
3. Get the Ring Size Right
Nothing spoils the surprise quite like a ring that doesn’t fit! Secretly borrowing a ring your partner wears on their ring finger (usually the left hand) is a clever way to get an accurate size. Alternatively, use a printable ring sizer or consult our guide to finding your partner’s ring size for tips on how to get it right without giving away your plans.
4. Plan the Perfect Setting
Think about where your partner would feel most comfortable and moved — whether it’s under the stars, by the Christmas tree, on a winter walk, or in your favourite restaurant. Choose a location that feels meaningful to both of you. Seasonal touches like fairy lights, candles, or snow can make the moment even more magical.
5. Capture the Moment
You’ll want to remember this moment forever, so consider how to record it. A discreet photographer or a simple phone video can help you preserve the reaction — without distracting from the emotion of the moment. Afterwards, you’ll have beautiful memories to share with loved ones.
6. Prepare What You’ll Say
It doesn’t have to be a long speech, but think about what you want to say before you propose. Reflect on your relationship — the journey you’ve shared, and the future you’re promising together. Simple, heartfelt words always mean the most.
7. Celebrate in Style
Once they say “yes”, it’s time to celebrate! Plan something special afterwards — whether that’s a quiet dinner for two or a family gathering. Don’t forget to take a few photos of your new ring in its first moments on their hand — it’s a piece of history worth capturing.
Your Perfect Proposal Awaits
From choosing the right ring to planning the moment itself, every step of your proposal should feel personal and thoughtful. With a little preparation — and a lot of love — you’ll create a memory that will last a lifetime.
Explore our curated selection of antique and vintage engagement rings and find the perfect ring for your perfect “yes.”