Planning a surprise proposal or a special Christmas gift? One of the biggest challenges is finding your partner’s ring size without giving away the secret. Whether you’re choosing an antique engagement ring or a meaningful vintage piece, here’s how to get it right without spoiling the surprise.
How to Secretly Check Their Ring Size
- Borrow a ring they already wear: If your partner wears a ring on their ring finger (or close in size), borrow it briefly and measure the inner diameter using a ring size chart or printable guide. Just be sure to return it before they notice!
- Ask a trusted friend or family member: If you’re unsure, discreetly enlist help from someone close to them—especially if they’ve discussed ring styles before.
- Compare with your own finger: Slide one of their rings onto your finger and mark where it stops. A jeweller can often estimate the correct size from this reference.
- Check social media or wishlists: Sometimes your partner may have saved or shared rings online that include size details—worth a quick look!
- Use a ring sizer at home: There are inexpensive, discreet ring sizers available online that can help you check their size from another ring they own. You can request a free finger measure from us here.
What If You’re Still Unsure?
If you’re between sizes, it’s best to choose slightly larger. Most rings—especially antique and vintage designs in gold or platinum—can be resized later by a skilled jeweller. Choosing the perfect ring is far more important than getting the size exactly right on the first try. We offer complimentary resizing, ensuring your ring is the perfect fit.
Why Antique and Vintage Rings Make the Perfect Christmas Surprise
There’s something magical about presenting an antique or vintage ring at Christmas. Each ring carries its own story and timeless charm, making it a thoughtful and sustainable choice. Whether you’re planning a festive proposal or gifting a meaningful heirloom, a vintage ring is a symbol of love that lasts well beyond the holidays.
Planning a Festive Proposal
Christmas proposals have been cherished for generations—the warmth, lights, and joy make the season unforgettable. When paired with an antique engagement ring, your proposal becomes part of a larger story—one filled with history, romance, and tradition.